George, this is a moving reflection paired with honest insight. I’m currently reading Menakem’s book in an effort to release my anger regarding my workplace trauma. I know I need to write about it, am petrified. Whatever I write won’t be as beautiful as your piece. Thank you for discussing the risks to career trajectory. If we like it or not, large portions of our career are influenced by others. Acknowledging the pain you carry and the pain you caused in this piece makes reflection an ideal blueprint for others processing their experiences and careers.